Har larki ek aise ladke ki taraf naturally attract hoti hai jo confident ho lekin attitude se free, aur jise apni feelings express karna aata ho. Romantic banna ka matlab sirf “I love you” keh dena nahi, balki wo chhoti chhoti baatein karna hai jo dil ko choo jaati hain. Jaise jab wo baat kar rahi ho to tum genuinely suno, beech mein phone na uthao, aur usay feel karao ke uski har baat tumhare liye important hai. Larkiyon ko wo ladke pasand aate hain jo unhe samajhne ki koshish karte hain — na ke sirf impress karne ki.
Dusra sabse important point hai effort aur originality. Romantic wo nahi hota jo har baat pe cheesy line maar de; romantic wo hota hai jo apne gestures se pyaar dikhaye. Agar tum kisi larki ke liye khud kuch plan karte ho — jaise ek chhoti si coffee date, ya bina reason ke ek note likh dena — to ye sab cheezein uske dil tak jaati hain. Wo mehsoos karti hai ke tumhara pyaar real hai, show-off nahi. Asli romance hamesha simple hota hai, lekin dil se hota hai.